IF YOU LOVE (BEING) AN AWAKENED WOMAN
For many years I have worked on knowing myself, loving
myself and understanding myself. Honoring who I am and what I believe in
without making apologies for it. I have been surprised that this process of
awakening to the spiritual experience of being a woman was not always well
received by others. However, I’ve also seen how this process of unfolding has
propelled others’ transformation and growth; both women and men. While I
acknowledge that these words reflect mostly my own perspective, it also
collects what I’ve witnessed in other women and men in awakening to their
highest self and in the experience of spiritually loving and being loved. For this purpose,
I humbly share my experience as an awakened woman. Honoring you both in the unique pace and rhythm of your souls, I
elevate these words as sweet prayers for transformation:
The caliber of an awakened woman can bring you to your
highest destiny. Because a woman like this is precisely awakened to the majesty
of her whole being.
People, especially men, may be profoundly intimidated by
her, because she knows the depth of her soul, and therefore she’s not afraid to
delve into the core, into the heart of issues as they arise.
A woman with such clarity won’t accept a lie, she’ll simply
smile into your duality and face you. Her eyes of love and wisdom can bring in
your own truth.
A woman with such compassion will hold your heart as she
would hold a child. She knows the ways of love, as she has learned to caress
and cradle her own being.
A strong-hearted woman will challenge you to stay attuned to
your present. If you trust her wisdom, she’ll reflect back the best of you,
like the moon to the sun.
You can try to fool her, but she will always be ahead of
you, not to compete, but to meet you where you’re at and elevate you.
Gracefully, she’ll take your hand and walk with you through darkness.
You’ll be
astounded by her trust. She’ll follow her own light and illuminate the path
that is your way out.
She’s unstoppable because she flows soft and penetrating
like water. If you honor her, she’ll keep you fresh and nourished. If you hurt
her, your foolishness will just be reflected back at you sixteen times,
freezing your heart and evaporating the trust that was placed in you. This is
not born out of vengeance or meant as a command. This is the feminine nature of
energy, that mirrors back the trust and caring given to her, enhancing it and
encouraging the connection to grow. Sometimes, she’ll be of service as a
magnifying glass: enhancing or constricting, expanding or limiting. Ultimately,
she reflects what is given; beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
Understand this: to love an awakened woman you’ll have to
lose yourself; give in. This does not mean you must abandon who you are, but
instead necessitates that you surrender your ego, your habits, your wounds,
your spiritual void. You must know that around the warmth of her being you’ll
melt like honey under a blue sky.
Her ways are subtle and stark, simple and complex, sweet and
bitter, soft and firm. Can you acknowledge the paradox of her essence? She
wanes and waxes like the moon, constantly adjusting with the ever-changing
phases of life.
If you don’t understand this, then understand her, “stand
under” her. Support her and you will witness how your soundness and steadiness
make her flourish, at the same time as she supports you and helps you realize
your highest potential.
She’ll be standing rhythmically by your side, enhancing your relationship with yourself, helping you
to nourish your own self-worth. Like a mystery, she’ll open the doors to the
unknown, encouraging you to grow in your faith. You’ll find in your deepest,
most intimate meditations, that she reminds you of Spirit. She’s there to bless
you, as you’re there to bless her from the majesty of your awakened being.
If you love an awakened woman, life’s journey will be like a
smooth caress. You’ll find yourself doubting less as you consolidate, and
become steady, calm, patient and wise. The stability and integrity of an
awakened man is a major blessing for the world, and for her, like a sweet kiss
from God.
Over time, your cultivated intuition will naturally reveal
to you both when to be silent and when to speak. You’ll rise with the
understanding that commitment is a state of being, like a light of remembrance
whenever you feel lost.
An awakened woman and an awakened man both know that the
most supreme experience of love is to feel whole. Only from this wholeness is
it possible to sacrifice, to expect nothing in return and to share your being
just for the joy of giving and loving.
Love an awakened woman and you’ll find there are no real
barriers to change, only the sweet ache of transformation that inadvertently
turns carbon into diamond.
You’ll grow wings because an awakened woman will propel you
towards really embracing freedom, and paradoxically, you might find yourself
searching for an anchor and longing to go “home” after a long challenging day.
When you gaze into her eyes you’ll discover your divine
self, looking right back at you.
An awakened woman is a never-ending wake up call. Her light
will ignite your being, her compassion will cradle your fears and her love will
be a sweet gift from God, Spirit, and the Universe.
Are you ready to Love an awakened woman?
And you…
Are you ready to Be an awakened woman?
